I was chatting with a friend recently and realized that we had a common malady. We would often go the extra mile for friend or colleague in need meanwhile short changing ourselves in the process.
The more I pondered this self-sabotaging behavior the more aware I became of how much this has gotten out of hand. The need to please others has become so commonplace that we often put our own goals and dreams on the back burner as to support others in their endeavors.
I am not saying that we should turn into selfish beings but to become self-full. In others words put the oxygen mask on yourself so that you can help others. The truth is that when your tank is empty and you cannot breathe for giving all of yourself to someone else you are in no shape to support either you or them in the life you are called to lead.
Declare today the day that you breathe in the fullness of you and give to yourself first!
If your oxygen mask drops down, it's time to take a breather! ~ Richard Simmons